☍ Opposition

Venus opposition Black Moon Lilith

Being wanted and being unedited conflict. Read as the difficulty of being loved without being tidied, which is the whole of this aspect.

Angle
180°
Orb used
±6°
Type
Hard
Bodies
♀ ⚸

What these two are about together

Worth and what will not be made acceptable, which the tradition treats as the central Lilith pairing and also the one most often written about badly.

What a opposition does

An opposition puts two planets exactly across from one another, in signs that are traditionally paired rather than unrelated. It is read as tension between two things that genuinely belong together, which is what separates it from a square. The tradition frames it as a problem of balance and, very often, as something a person meets through other people rather than alone.

How it reads

Being wanted and being unedited conflict. Read as the difficulty of being loved without being tidied, which is the whole of this aspect.

In practice

Read as a see-saw. Whichever end is being favoured, the other end is being neglected, and the aspect tends to describe the swing between them rather than a settled position.

What to watch for

Projection. Oppositions are the aspect most associated with meeting your own unowned half in somebody else and disliking it there.

The two planets

Venus: Values, attraction and what you find beautiful

Black Moon Lilith: What you will not apologise for

Venus and Black Moon Lilith at other angles

Find this in your own chart

A reading like this only tells you what the pairing is associated with. Whether Venus and Black Moon Lilith actually make this angle in your chart depends on your birth date, time and place.